©2010 by Leslie Blue
PART ONE
How much do you really know about your lady's orgasms?
Do you have what it takes to make her cum multiple times -- maybe having six, seven, eight or even more orgasms
in a row? Do you fantasize about watching her writhe and squirm with delight, and hearing her scream and moan in
ecstasy, and seeing her squirt large loads of her honey-cream cum? Would you love to be able to totally drive her
absolutely crazy with pleasure, each and every time you bring her to a climax? Did you know that most women have
two different kinds of orgasms -- one is brought on from stimulating her clit, while the second kind is produced
by her G-spot? Would you like to learn how to give her the ultimate in explosive orgasms, by making her have both
kinds at the same time?
Well, my guys, it might be much simpler to accomplish all that than you think. Just read this article I've written on womens' orgasms, and you can stop dreaming about "maybe", and learn how to make it happen for real!
THE CLITORAL ORGASM
Once you locate a woman's clit, the rest should be a piece of cake!
I searched high and low for a decent diagram of one, and found the best viewing for you was one of my own pics, so take a look at this:
Pictured is my clit and my pussy area surrounding it. The actual head of my clit is the tiny, oval shaped button -- just to the lower right section that is adjacent to the knuckle on my middle finger. I like to call it my Little Man-In-The-Boat! My Magic Button! My Pleasure Bud!
Once you find this exact spot on your lady -- for starters all you need to use is the pointer or middle finger of your favored hand -- you will hold the secret to her total sexual pleasure right there in the tip of your digit!
I suggest an extremely light touch throughout, moving your finger in sometimes circular, sometimes stroking motions -- making certain she is always well wet, with either her own slippery sex sauce or an artificial, water-based lubricant like the good old-fashioned, always reliable KY Jelly. You can vary the speed a bit, but as you progress along your gal's pleasure paths, increasingly faster usually works well with me.
As her moaning grows louder and more frequent, she may start squirming and writhing around -- letting out some strangely sensual, little sounds, ranging from grunts and groans to sometimes actual screams. As she reaches her climax, be prepared to witness her spasming snatch pumping out pussy juice. If she is a squirter, you may get the privilege of seeing some large amounts of creamy cum gushing from its source, straight from her love hole.
If you fancy pleasuring your lady orally, you may simply transpose the same movements that you made with your finger to your tongue. Many women get even more enjoyment from this form of pleasing. The best way yet is to combine the two types of touching, in using both your fingers and mouth -- always keeping in mind that the most sensitive, pleasure producing spot is directly on that Magic Button!
You may wish to precede the above procedure with some light to hard fingering of her love hole -- or postpone the fingering action until after the orgasm. I strongly suggest that once your lady has completed cumming, you cease all actual touching directly to her clit instantly! This is important to remember, since after a woman has an orgasm, the clit becomes extremely sensitive -- similar to the way a guy's cock becomes when he cums. It can even be slightly painful to the touch immediately after a climax. So after the peak of ultimate explosion has occurred, STOP TOUCHING IT!
I prefer to have one and only one area of my pussy paid attention to at a time. This helps me in concentrating more on reaching my climax, and makes me cum even quicker. So I suggest saving any combination of fingering or tonguing several different areas at the same time more for the fore- or postplay of the orgasm.
The only action you may want to use concurrently with stimulating her clit, is to play with her nipples. I find there is a definite nerve connection between a woman's nipples, and her clit. When my nipples are being stimulated gently, I can feel every single movement in my clit also. It gives a tingling sensation, and becomes quite swollen when my nipples are being licked, sucked, and kissed. And a little nipple action -- combined with the motions on her clit -- are not at all too distracting, but in fact are even enhancing.
PART TWO
THE G-SPOT ORGASM
The so-called G-spot lies within a woman's vaginal canal and most women feel a certain amount of extra special
sensitivity when that area of her body is stimulated. Below is a diagram which will give you a general idea
about where the G-spot lies.
When you hit the G-spot repeatedly – either with your hard cock while fucking your lady, or with your finger while manually stimulating her internally – it will send a sensation through her body that is very similar, if not identical to, an orgasm.
You can often tell when you have hit the G-spot when you insert your finger deep into her love canal, and toward the top of where you can reach – it will feel almost like your hand is holding a gun with your finger on the trigger. John Lennon said it best in the Beatles song off the White Album. He wrote, “When I hold you in my arms, and I feel my finger on your trigger, I know that nobody can do me no wrong, 'cause Happiness Is A Warm Gun, yes it is!”
For me personally, the G-spot orgasm is never quite as intense and pleasurable as the orgasm I have when you play with my clit. However, during a love-making session, when I am fucking my lover furiously, and he is about to release his load into my pussy – if I have a G-spot orgasm simultaneously with his – it is an absolutely fantastic feeling! It sends shudders through my body and makes me tremble with delight!
PART THREE
THE BIG DOUBLE 'O'
Once you get good at making your lady cum with both types of orgasms as described above, you are ready to try
your hand – literally – at helping her have both orgasms from the clit and the G-spot simultaneously.
I suggest it would be a great idea to first have her cum at least one or two times from stimulating her clit alone, then maybe do some finger-fucking up her love hole, stimulating her G-spot for a little while. Once you have her rocking and rolling around a bit that way, then you are ready to start to stimulate her clit at the same time you are still working on her G-spot.
There are several ways you can accomplish this – each one of them well worth trying on your gal, just to see which ones she enjoys the most. You can use both hands if you want, one or two fingers inserted into her vagina on her G-spot, while the other hand uses a finger to work on her clit. You could also use your tongue on her clit while fingering her G-spot, or even fuck her with your rock hard cock and finger her clit with one hand at the same time.
You should reach a point where she begins to climax and she may shudder and shake and make many kinds of funny sounds! This is how you will know she is getting close, in case she does not tell you out loud. Once she cums – and it will be an intense orgasm, with both spots reaching a peak at the same moment – she will probably just collapse in a heap, with a huge grin on her face, smiling up at you as if you just fulfilled her every fantasy of being with a wonderful lover!
Women seldom ejaculate with the force and quantity that a guy does when he cums. However, there should be some amount of clear to white colored, creamy thick liquid coming from your lady's love hole when she does have an orgasm. If you are one who enjoys going down on her, then that would be your most opportune time to get the goods!
It's always fun to experiment with both types of female orgasms, in making your lady cum multiple times from each type or both. You can even play sex games, in trying to set records for how many orgasms you can achieve in one session – my record is 17 and still counting!
In any case, whether you are using your cock, your fingers and hands, your mouth and tongue, or even a battery operated toy on your lady – you both should really enjoy to the fullest the feeling you get when you make your woman cum!
Love and kisses,
Leslie
